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Lisa Benson – Author Talk – Stories behind the storyteller

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April 10 @ 2:30 pm - 4:00 pm

Wednesday April 10, 2:30 pm – 4:00 pm
Port Macquarie Library
32 Grant St
Port Macquarie, New South Wales 2444 Australia

 Please join us for a chat with Lisa Benson at our Port Macquarie Library on Wednesday 10th April at 2.30pm

Lisa Benson is a self-diagnosed recovering perfectionist who spent five years writing her multi-award winning memoir, Where Have I Been All My Life? During this time, she lived part time on a boat on Sydney Harbour which she found to be a peaceful and inspirational space for her writing. Lisa and her husband continue to lead a ‘double life’ travelling between Newcastle and Sydney each week.

Lisa has a Bachelor of Business Degree with a major in tourism and marketing. She previously held various sales and marketing positions in hotels and resorts, and also worked in a real estate office. It wasn’t until Lisa was in her forties that she decided to pursue her lifelong dream of becoming an author, and she now writes full-time.

Lisa’s motto is Stop Trying – Start Being although she spent most of her life doing the exact opposite. Her writing is honest and relatable, and she hopes her vulnerability helps others feel less alone. Lisa would love to inspire women to stop wasting time living up to other people’s expectations, to discover the magic of living an authentic life and to be free of self-imposed limitations.

If you would like to hear more from Lisa, you can follow her on Instagram (lisabensonauthor), Facebook (Lisa Benson Author) or LinkedIn (Lisa Benson).

Lisa’s website is www.lisabensonauthor.com

Where Have I Been All My Life: How I Finally Grew Up After A Life of Putting Up, Giving Up and Shutting Up

‘I became an expert at deception without even knowing it.’

Lisa grew up as ‘Little Miss Perfect,’ a star student – smart and capable. She had big plans for her life.

Why then, by her mid-thirties had she settled for mediocracy? What had robbed her of her dreams? Why was she in a safe and unfulfilling job? Why was she in a toxic relationship with a controlling man she knew she didn’t want to end up with?

After a shocking wake-up call she finally took action and in the process discovered that she had been existing instead of living for too long. Plunging on an inward journey, she explores her childhood conditioning, intergenerational trauma and limiting beliefs which reveal how much time she squandered putting up, giving up, and shutting up.

Where Have I Been All My Life? explores the ways in which ‘good girls’ make valuable mistakes on the path to true adulthood, but when we release fear and pain, we become empowered to claim freedom and authenticity.

In this story of one woman reaching for a life beyond the silencing gates of shame, Lisa becomes unstuck and squeezes more joy and excitement into the last ten years than in her preceding thirty-seven.

And who knows what surprises the universe has for her when she stops trying to be the person everyone expects her to be and starts being the person she was born to be?

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Port Macquarie Library
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6581 8755
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Port Macquarie Library
32 Grant St
Port Macquarie, New South Wales 2444 Australia
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